Before you apply to a family court in England and Wales, you must usually attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). This requirement, introduced by the Children and Families Act 2014, ensures that families explore quicker and less stressful ways to settle disagreements.
We provide authorised MIAMs for clients, helping you secure the relevant court confirmation or start the mediation process.
What is a MIAM?
A MIAM is a private, 45-to-60-minute meeting with a qualified family mediator. Importantly, you attend this meeting alone. You do not need to meet with your former partner at this stage.
The meeting allows us to:
- Assess Suitability: We check if mediation is safe and appropriate for your case.
- Explain Your Options: We discuss child arrangements, financial settlements, and property issues.
- Review Funding: We determine if you qualify for Legal Aid or the Family Mediation Voucher Scheme.
- Provide Court Paperwork: If mediation is not the right fit, we complete the necessary court forms so you can proceed with your application.
The MIAM Process in 3 Simple Steps
- Private Consultation: You meet one-to-one with our mediator, often by video call. You explain your situation and the outcomes you want to achieve.
- Exploring Alternatives: We explain how mediation works and how it compares with the court process. We also screen for any safety concerns or domestic abuse to ensure everyone stays protected.
- Next Steps: If you choose to mediate, we invite the other party to their own MIAM. If you need to go to court, we issue your MIAM certificate, which is usually valid for four months.
Do You Qualify for a MIAM Exemption?
While the law expects most people to attend a MIAM, exceptions exist. Under the Family Procedure Rules, you may not need a MIAM if:
- You have evidence of domestic abuse.
- There are immediate child protection concerns.
- Your case is critically urgent.
If these apply to you, we can help you understand the next steps for your court application.
FAQs
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to see my ex-partner during the MIAM?
No. You attend the MIAM individually. We speak to each person separately so you can talk freely and safely.
How long does a MIAM certificate last?
In England and Wales, a MIAM certificate is usually valid for four months from the date of your meeting.
Can I get a MIAM for free?
If you qualify for Legal Aid, your MIAM is free. If you qualify for Legal Aid and the other person does not, the Legal Aid Agency usually still covers the cost of the other person’s MIAM and the first joint mediation session.
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